help › emma
servers that are not activated get the occasional nudge: emma's invite when someone posts a discord.gg link, a one-in-a-thousand 'add my sister' when someone says emma, and a warning on heavy topics. a pessimist plus subscriber typing .activate in the server (with bella in it) marks the server as activated and the nudges stop.
still stuck? join the pessimist server and a human will sigh and then help you.